Internet Solutions 2005

How To Control The Conversation Online

7-11-2005

The First Rule in Sales

Well, I don’t know if it is the First Rule or not but I do know as does every marketing guru, sales trainer and top sales person that he or she who asks questions controls the conversation.  This is true in social situations and in business and sales situations.  Imagine, for a moment that you have come face to face with Tom Cruise or Nicole Kidman or even the President of the U.S.  What would you do?  Blather on about how much you admire the person and what an honor it is to be in their exhaled presence.  Bet they have heard that before.  But what if you ask a question?  You might ask a movie star what his or her favorite role was.  You might ask the president how he plans to solve the energy crises.  As soon as you ask, you are controlling the conversation with movie stars and presidents.  Cool huh?

 WHO TAKES CONTROL?

I will bet that you have been in situations where a prospective customer took control of the conversation.  Hopefully that was awhile back but whenever it occurred, think back on how out of control you felt. A potential customer that is good at firing questions at you will keep you from doing your job.  I mean, how can you find out their needs and how you can help them when you are running as fast as you can just to answer their questions that more than likely hop from one topic to another?  I’ve certainly run into real estate agents who call me wanting to get help using the Internet effectively and who start off with a barrage of questions.  Here’s how I handle it.

ANSWER QUESTIONS WITH A QUESTION

Agents or brokers who want to control the conversation with me often start out by saying, “Tell me why your Web design is better than one of the many template Websites that I might choose.”   I might very well respond, “Better in what way?”  Who is asking the questions now? I know that I am answering a question with a question and that is considered wrong in school.  But we're not in school anymore.

 

How to Ask Questions

All human beings come equipped with the ability to ask questions.  Tough questions!  From very small children to teenagers, they control the situation with the questions they ask. Why do I have to eat my peas?  Why is the grass green?  Why can’t I watch TV?  I have heard many parents try to answer these questions and finally give up with something like, “Because I said so, or because it is!”  It took me many years as a mother and grandmother before I figured out that those little darlings were not really asking questions, they were trying and succeeding in controlling the conversation.  Since I do not write about parenting skills as I am no expert there, I will stick to sales training and marketing where I do have a certain amount of credibility and expertise.

 ANTICIPATING THE WRONG QUESTIONS

  Somewhere along the line many real estate sales people got the idea that the way to generate new leads, listings and sales was to answer questions.  Often they attempt to answer questions that have not even been asked. I see this especially on real estate Websites but I see it in print ads as well.  “I want to be your Realtor for Life” presumes that someone out there has asked what your goals are.  The tag line, “Integrity, Honesty and Know-How” presupposes that someone wants to know what you think of yourself.  The statement, “Over 40 gazillion dollars in sales last year,” presupposes that someone understands what you mean by that statement and wants to know how much money you made.

KEEP THOSE QUESTIONS COMING

Instead, it is possible to ask questions even using print advertising, TV and radio.  The questions you ask will determine the kind and quality of leads you will generate.  For example: “Do you know the top price your house will bring on today’s market?”  People might really wonder about that.  Or, “What are the odds that you will overpay for your next home?”  Nobody wants to do that.

How to Ask Questions Online

 Yes, it is possible to ask questions online.  Pages that ask questions are called Interactive Pages.  Interactive Web pages is what the Web is really all about.  When you correlate your local marketing and your Website with Interactive pages, you will begin to see what all the Internet fuss is all about.  For example, the Web page at http://www.sellrealestate.net
/LeadGeneration.htm
explains how interactive Web pages are set up and why they work.  If you would like to see an interactive page in more detail, visit http://www.sellrealestate.net/customweb.htm and click on the Website on the middle left.  You can see how an interactive section called “Do you know your Real Estate I.Q.?” might be structured. 

 FOCUS YOUR QUESTIONS

The kinds of questions you ask on your Website will depend on the market you want to attract.  If you were targeting buyers you would not be interested in asking For Sale by Owners if they might like to have Free Advertising on your Website. What would be the point?  What if you want to target investors?  Can you think of any questions you might like to ask them?  This is not a trick question.  The interactive pages we create for real estate agents and brokers always come from real questions that you, the agent, would like to pose to the people you want to attract. 

If you are not asking questions on your Website, who is controlling the conversation between you and your prospect?  Here’s a hint.  It isn’t you!

 THE LOGICAL NEXT STEP

If you would like to be controlling the conversation on your Website you are thinking in the right direction.  The logical next step would be to contact me for a Free Custom Web Plan.  I’ll be happy to help you figure out what kinds of questions to ask.  Simply call me toll free at 888-814-5347 or visit me online at  http://www.sellrealestate.net/FreeWebPlan.asp. When you take control of the Online Conversation you will start to see the kinds of marketing results you’ve always wanted.  

 

 

WEB DESIGN OPTIONS

Formula for Success

 

If you want to Get Customers to Come to You, Always Put Your Customers First. Choose or create a Website that is User Friendly, Focuses on Customer Needs, Makes Offers and Never Keeps Customers Waiting. For Ideas click on Web Design at http://www.sellrealestate.net

INTERNET SOLUTIONS 2003
How to Get Customers to Come to You

Written by Noel Markham, M.A.
Web Designer & Marketing  Consultant
Contact Noel toll free at 888-814-5347
E-mail: noel@revalues.com